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Entries in parenting (15)


Take your child to work day means watching a foal take its first steps

Call it fate, coincidence, or God's will but somehow this year's take-your-child-to-work-day just happens to be the same day that The Mister's horse gave birth!

He has a little race horse called Seeking Options who has been settled in Delaware for her maternity.

The past few days she's been "ready to go" but you just never know when. All you know, according to the horse folk, is that it happens late at night into early morning. It never happens during the day.

Seeking Options pregnant and ready for birth

So knowing the girls could take today off for take-your-child-to-work-day, The Mister packed them up last night and headed to the farm to sit and wait.

Amazingly she went into labor at around 11:30 pm and 15 minutes later had a brand new baby foal.

 baby foal just a few minutes old

baby foal and mother nuzzling 

And the girls watched the whole thing!

El is still sleeping (they decided to come home and arrived around 3:30 am) but according to Em it was "cool and gross!".

Wait! El just got up and she said, "it was really yucky when it came out but isn't the foal soooo cuuuute?".

I'd say they put in a good day at work, and learned that some things are worth laboring for.

They need a day just to process what they saw, and ask a gajillion questions about it.

Good thing The Mister is here cause I'm heading off to a day of meetings!

UPDATE: Here's the full video!



Lost keys and phones? Check your pockets and, um, your hand

The other day I got a call from an old college friend. Actually, I got a call from her youngest daughter.

She's two.

See her daughter was playing with her phone because my friend was in the mall with all 4 girls (did I mention 4 ages 6 and under?) and SHE HAD LOST HER KEYS!


About 20 minutes after the call I got a text from my friend that she had found her keys!

In her pocket.

Been there mama. Too many times to count.

Here's the full transcript so you can see what I recently did.

Have you ever lost your sunglasses (on top of your head), your keys (on the special key hook you hung up just for your keys), or your cell phone IN YOUR HAND?


What kind of mother are you?!?!



Just another reason why I love Twitter. And the 80s

As I wrote about earlier El has been playing around with the little keyboard we have and one of the songs she learned was a very popuar one in the 80s.

She wanted to know the name of the song but I couldn't remember.

We tried Shazam but that doesn't work if you can only hum or sing the song.

I could't find a recording of it without knowing the name so, I asked on Twitter.

But how do you 'sing' a song that has no words on Twitter?

So I typed this:

And then started laughing because who would possibly be able to get that?

Well, my friend @Busymom did and she replied...

And she was totally right!

And then we looked it up on YouTube and El said,

"That song was made in the 80s?!?!?"

and I proudly said,

"Of course".

And she frowned and said,

"But it's such a cool song!"

Whatever punk. You're all punks. The 80s rocked and you missed it.

Forever defending my decade,



Taking a Break from After School Activities

 How many extracurricular activities do your kids have going on at one time?


How many of those activities are held more than once a week?

Riding lessons

I can't speak for anyone else, but for me, After school activities are meant to enhance childhood learning and exploration, not cause stress. When our family is overwhelmed by activities, it can make homework time challenging, dinner time challenging, and it can definitely challenge my no-yelling resolution.

Saying no to activities does not mean saying yes to mom guilt.

For the Twofer, they seem to have a limit of two activities.
I discovered this last year when we simply took a break from all but one activity, brownies, which only met every other week.

Here were the deciding factors for us:

The girls were enrolled in three activities- brownies, ballet, and riding lessons.

They started riding as soon as the farm would allow, age 5.

Horseback riding is not an inexpensive activity.

Most people who run horse farms have never heard of a twin discount.

Having twins is an expensive activity at the tender age of 6, can make you question just how much a 1st grader 'needs' that activity.

They loved it but we took a break.

I was worried they might be bored. I was worried they would miss horseback riding. I was worried I was forever damaging my children by actually telling them they couldn't do something {gasp}.

Who had I become? I tell my kids no all the time but because this decision was largely a financial one I felt guilty?

I realized my gut was right even if my brain wasn't entirely on board.

Taking an activity break can make life easier financially, and emotionally.

For us it meant an extra $1000 in our pocket (I told you riding is expensive between lessons, boots, helmets, and if you participate in shows). However taking a break from riding gave us more time to spend with each other. It eliminated the stress of having to rush through homework to get to an activity. It gave us more time to connect with each other at the dinner table. And mom didn't yell as much.

Here is what happened when we took the break.

As 'walkers' (we live close enough to walk to school) the girls had more opportunity for last-minute play dates with friends.

We rediscovered the local library weekly...something we had always done during preschool days.

We ran errands together and the girls often had time with The Mister.

We cooked dinner together.

Then we actually had time to sit down and enjoy it.

Have you taken a break or cut back on your child's activity load? I'd love to hear how it went!



Dad's advice for the girls' first basketball game

Image via BigTallGuy on Flickr

The Twofer are playing basketball and their first game is this weekend! This is going to be a great opportunity to learn about playing being a team player, good sportsmanship, and why it's important to practice.

The Mister had some words of advice for their first game.

I was so moved by them, I had to share with you.

Hip Check

"When boxing out, it never hurts to throw a little hip check to clear your opponent out."


Throwing Elbows

"After grabbing a rebound, throwing elbows in both directions will make defenders less likely to try and get the ball from you."


Hot sauce

"Put a little hot sauce, or other eye irritant, on your elbows."


But seriously...

Can you imagine if anyone took him seriously what that game would look like? Can't you just see the blank stares on the faces of their teammates (all 7 and 8 year old girls) if was to seriously give them THAT speech before the game?

So, what would your advice be?